Wednesday, September 5, 2012

Focus on the Family Community: Relationships and Marriage ...

I'll just be straight with you Seekingtruth...this secret you're keeping from your wife...it will come out.? In my experience God does not allow the knowledge of adultery to stay buried.? No matter how much you want to hide it, it will come out somehow.

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I've been on both sides of adultery.? From where you're sitting right now, I understand why you want to hide this because I remember thinking the same thing.? You might be telling yourself that you can learn to live with what you did and she can never be hurt by what she doesn't know.? And you know what, maybe this is something you can live with.? But just as I guarantee you this secret will come out eventually...I can also guarantee that what your keeping from her will eventually dissrupt and cloud any intimacy or connection the two of you have right now...because while what you have with your wife right now may feel right and good...it's being built by your deception...and that will never stand.

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And if you don't tell her and she finds out some other way in the future...she will feel like a fool.? You may feel like you're respecting her and her feelings by hiding the truth, but in reality you're committing the ultimate dissrespect to her...and if she finds out about this by anyone but you at some point...she's going to feel like you didn't love and trust her enough to tell the truth...and for her that maybe a deal breaker...are you willing to risk that?

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These are just my initial thoughts, my friend.

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We can't run from our deceptions...we're not near fast enough to keep them from catching up with us and destroying things.

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I'm praying for you, man.

Source: http://www.focusonlinecommunities.com/thread/25020

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